Today marks the 21st anniversary of my late dad passing… Not a day goes by without me missing him and not a day goes by without me wishing he is still with us.. I love you Ayah.. Al-fatihah..
Cheerio…
LadyJava
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When you marry someone, you marry their life and your partner’s family become your family much like your partner’s friends become your friends. Well, today we lost a very dear friend, a very kind, loyal, friendly, ever helpful friend that is loved by many. People always have nice and good things to say about Fik and he is well-respected in his field of work as well.
Our Unifi was down yesterday so we slept early. Around 1am thereabout, Azwaj’s phone starting ringing followed by numerous text messages. He finally got up and check his message and was stunned when we got word that Fik was in the ICU and was in critical situation. We knew Fik was ill but we also knew that he was seeking help and that his condition was improving. Anyway around 3am, Azwaj received word that we were able to visit him in the ICU anytime because of his condition. It seems he was already on life support and the outcome was grim. As such the doctor was opening up visiting hours for people to say their goodbyes. We immediately got ready and rushed to the hospital.
Fik was already in a coma. He was on all sorts of machines and tubes was everywhere. We prayed for him, stayed a while to talk to and consoled his mother and sister and left around dawn as there was nothing we can do anyway. Once Azwaj arrived home, he sms their mutual friends and updated them on Fik’s condition.
Around 8am, another friend called to let us know that Fik was no longer with us. It felt so unreal. There was simply no words to explained how both of us felt that precise moment.
Zul Fikhri bin Ismail was laid to rest in the Kajang Cemetery today, 17th May 2011. May he rest in peace, leaving behind all pain and suffering as he meets our maker. Al-Fatihah..
You will be missed dear friend…
I am going to miss your muffled words that I used to love to tease you about.
I’m gonna miss your laughter
I’m gonna miss your love for the kitties when you come over…
I’m gonna miss you..
19 years ago you left me and yet it seems like only yesterday we were chit chatting about my future.
You left too soon.. I didn’t have time to share with you my success or my happiness.
You left too soon that I was left without a father’s love when I needed your support.
You left too soon that I didn’t get to ask your advice about things like roadside assistance club
You left too soon.. I miss you…
Al-fatihah for Ayah….
I found out from my mom that my Aunt, on my late father side, had passed away. She was diagnosed with cancer a while back and been in and out of the hospital undergoing treatment. She was laid to rest yesterday evening.
Rest in Peace Mak Ngah.. We love you and you will be missed.
Al Fatihah…
…since Mama’s passing and we still miss her so much. Her memory still lives on fresh and even now sometimes I can’t believe she’s really gone. Each time I go to my father-in-law’s place, I half expect her to just walk down the stairs to greet us.
We had “tahlil” at the mosque on Thursday, a day set aside by the mosque for such events, to commemorate that day. It was nice to see all the relatives again praying and citing the “yasin” together. “Alhamdulliah”
“We miss you MAMA… Rest in Peace..”
Cheerio…
My mama (mother-in-law) was laid to rest today at the Lembah Keramat Muslim Cemetery.
She suffered from lung cancer which was made worst by a brain tumor which was discovered during her radiotherapy treatment. She fought hard but alas Allah didn’t want her to suffer anymore and she was returned to him at 2.22am today..
Mama was a very special lady that I was proud to regard as my own mother. She treated me well throughout the ten years that I had been her daughter-in-law. I loved her and would sorely miss her and and her memory would lived on for the rest of my life.
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un
Al-fatihah…
I want to thank everyone with the condolence wishes. It was very much appreciated by me and Azwaj.
If my father was still around, today would have been his 68th birthday. However, seeing how God wants him to be with him instead, he was returned to HIM at very young age of 50, 18 years ago on 15 April 1992.
My Ayah was the best. He was strict, yes, but he was always so understanding and always explained why he did things the way he did. He was a patient man and never yelled or shouted even when we were bad. I remember how he would stay up with me on nights that I had study for my exams even though he had to wake up very early to go to the stall the next day and I also remember how he would stay up waiting for me when I had dates to make sure I came back by my curfew time..lol!
I always say my Ayah had a very young face like he used anti aging products or something because despite his receding hairline, he always looked sweet and handsome when he smiled. Call me bias but hey the man’s my daddy! lol!
I miss you so much Ayah and at special days like today, the missing makes my eyes welled up more than usual. May you rest in peace. Alfatihah
Cheerio…
LadyJava