Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Friday, October 12, 2012

All of us know the importance of intimacy in a relationship. For me, it is an ultimate extension of love that me and Azwaj share and that greatly strengthen the bond that we have as husband and wife. Some people may say that intimacy waiver as the couple get older as other responsibilities get priorities but we found that it just gets better with age.. lol!

Having said that, have you heard of “Empowered Products Empo Innovative Products For Wellness and Self Healing“. Well they sell sensual lubricants and libido-enhancing supplements. According to their website their woman product named “PINK” embraces the essence of what is female which is sexy, confident, playful, loving and of course unique. Pink lubricants, body care and sexual supplements promises each and every intimate experience is the most pleasurable and fulfilling it can be. The products for men called “GUN OIL”  offers men a line of high quality lubricants and sexual wellness products that turbo charge their sexual life and promote elevated sexual enjoyment and health.


With assurance like that why won’t couples give it a try right? Well why not take up their free offer and request for your  “HAPPY PACK” right tnow. I know I did.. lol!


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Friday, March 25, 2011

11 years ago, this time me and my soulmate were married. That seems such a huge number but it seems like only yesterday I remember meeting him for the very first time. In fact when Emila was driving up the JW Marriott hotel driveway, for the perfume launch the other day, I was again momentarily transported to that day that I saw Azwaj in his car waiting for me. Ahh.. memories..

Dearest Azwaj…
Our marriage went through the usual ups and downs as all other marriages do but through it all.. love held strong and here we are all.. celebrating our 11th year as man and wife.. I will love you forever and may Allah bless this union till death do us part..Ameen


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Thursday, March 25, 2010

Darling Azwaj..

We’ve made it babeh.. we made it 10years. My love for you only deepens with time and nothing would ever make you love you any less.. I love you because you make me feel special and most of all because….. you Take Me The Way I Am!!

Happy 10 Darling!!

Your darling..

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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

My Darling Azwaj..

Today is our 9th wedding anniversary. Time sure flies when you’re in marital bliss they always say and in our case, it rings true. We’ve had our ups and downs as any married couple would go through but we held on to our love and persevered through it all.

I remember our wedding day so vividly. Though it was raining, that didn’t dampen the mood of the happy and momentous occasion. Food was served, music was played and the especially prepared “Pantun” by Abah was read out loud and clear. Yes.. I remember it all, just like I remember our fight first, our first make up and lots of our other firsts ;)….

Here’s to eternity darling Azwaj coz You Have The Key To My Heart!

I love you FOREVER!!!

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Dear Azwaj:

Today marks the 9th year of our marital bliss together. We’ve gone through it all.. joy, sorrow, ups and down and somehow our love has been steadfast while we accept the challenges that God has thrown our way. We hold steadfast in our promise to forever be each other pillar of strength through whatever


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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Counting down to our 8th anniversary next month.. I thought it would be nice to retrace our love story.. our beginning I guess…

Me and Azwaj knew each other from a chat room. The Malaysian room to be exact. That room was always so active. Lots of activities, lots of chatters. So when I first joined the room, I had my own cliques, while he had his own. We would exchange greetings and that would be it.

But what fascinated me to him was that he would always “sing” in the room. What I mean is, he would type the lyrics to songs that were “in” at the time. One song that was a big hit that time was “I don’t want to miss at thing” by Aerosmith (that eventually became our song btw..) day he “PM” me and we started to chat…and chat…and chat.. and after some time we eventually started calling each other.

Then one day he told me he wrote me a song. Can you imagine my excitement? He said he would call me later that night to sing it to me… I was on cloud nine the whole day.

Here’s the lyrics to the song…. just a quick note though…my id was t@ti@n@ (just love the name, don’t know why) then and the song was in Malay..ok…hehehe

Tercipta suatu lagenda (So started a story)
Antara aku dan si dia (about me and her)
Tak pernah ku temui (someone I’ve not met)
Tak pernah ku kenali (someone I’ve not known)

Namun hatiku selalu bertanya (But my heart keep asking)
Siapakah gerangan si dia (who is she?)
Mencuri hatiku dalam bicara (the one who stole my heart with her words)
Mungkinkan mimpi ataupun nyata (is this truth of fantasy?)

Adakan aku bersandiwara (am I fantasizing?)
Mencari mimpi yg tiada nyata (searching for a dream?)
Mencari mu ohhh.. t@ti@n@ (searching for you.. t@ti@n@)

Sampaikan salam ku ini (send my regards to her)
Bukakan lah pintu hati (open up her heart)
Oohhh t@ti@n@…. (oh.. t@ti@n@)

***lyrics copyright protected

Now you tell me… What woman would not swoon after hearing that?? I literally had tears in my eyes as I was listening to him singing and strumming his guitar all the way from KL via phone.

It was a feeling that I’ve never felt before and I knew… I had fallen in love and this was to be my destiny….


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Tuesday, February 12, 2008

I decided today to just sit and reflect back on my life these seven years.

The reason why I’m doing this is because our wedding anniversary is coming soon. It’s going to be eight years on March, 25th! Eight wonderful years! It has it’s ups and downs of course. I’d be in self-denial if I did not admit that. However, on the whole, the sweetness outweigh any bitterness that exist.

Wow, seven years ago, I married this wonderful man that I’ve only known for one and half years. It was such a whirlwind romance because of our distance. Me, a born and bred Singaporean and he a full pledged Bumiputera Malaysian. We got to know one another from, you guessed it, cyber world.

I remember I was a late bloomer in the chatting world. I only started chatting at the age of twenty nine and that also because I was crazy over the boyband “Boyzone“. They were having this chat session and boy did I want to be there to chat with Ronan Keating. Anyway that’s a different story although but that the start of my chatting adventure. I was introduced to Yahoo and it pager and from then on, I was hooked. I found this Malaysian room that was really buzzing with action and I was chatting every opportunity I got.

And there he was and there I were. We started chatting and the next thing we knew, we met, we fell in love and the rest, like they say, is history.

How have I changed since getting married?

  1. I’ve grown to be more mellow. That’s the first obvious thing you would noticed about me. I, no longer lose my temper as easily as before. Oh I’m still temperamental and sulk sometimes but it has gone down a 80% notch.
  2. I am also more patient or forced to be patient. Where before it’s now, now, now. I am now more willing to go with “in a while” kind of thing.
  3. I’ve leant the fundamentals of being a wife like cooking, washing, cleaning house. Back when I was single, all these chores were done for me by my mom. Yeap, I was a spoilt brat. I would come home and my dinner would already been served on the table. I did not do any housework at all. And to avoid ironing, my pet peeve when it comes to household, I always made sure I got clothes that require none or very little ironing. The rest just goes to the Mr Laundry Man..lolzz
  4. I am more careful with my money. As I am no longer financial independent, I tend to think and rethink before I purchase anything. Before, I was such a terrible shopper. I see something I like and I will buy it immediately. I was also such an impulse buyer as well. I am no longer like that anymore.
  5. I now think for two. It’s no longer me only anymore. I don’t make decision without consulting Azwaj and I don’t even want to. I want any decision to be made only when we both know what’s happening or I won’t feel good otherwise

Hmm… I guess that’s a lot in seven years. Who knows what else I’ll change in the future when perhaps there’s three or four of us in the picture… By then, I’ll look back at this entry and smile and add more things I’m sure 😉


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