Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 18, 2010


Are you mine?

Mother Theresa once said, “Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand”. A love quote that is inspiring if you are looking for love, I’m sure.

Some people just have difficulty finding the right one. Some may attribute it to lack of time because they are always at work while some say the good ones are always taken. I, for one think that sometimes you just need a little effort and as Robert Mitchum said, “Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it”… And one of these ways could be to sign up to dating sites.

Out of five top dating websites reviewed by the people over at Consumer Rankings, has received the full five stars for it’s services. According to the Match dating site review, Match not only has more members than any online dating service, it also has a powerful search engine and it gives you up to 5 suggestions daily based on similar interest or background. Being cell-phone friendly, you can also search for your ideal date from wherever you are. What’s more it also guarantees that you meet that special someone in 6months!

Oh and remember, Tom Robbins said, “We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love”. Something to ponder upon eh…

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Wednesday, April 23, 2008

I’m sure many of us have faced this situation on least one occasion. Be it our choice or the other party, breaking up is never easy. At times, we are just afraid of being alone that we would rather stay in a disastrous relationship and suffer silently.

My first breakup was torture. I was no longer in love with the guy but he insisted that he still loved me and was committed to making the relationship work. I was miserable and I was making him miserable. We fought all the time and every conversation and discussion was an excuse for more arguments. I was already letting go and deep down I knew the relationship was doomed but he still refused to let go. He refused to acknowledge that I no longer loved him and that I was ready to move on without him in my life.

Finally I convinced him to let me go. I told him that I was merely a season for him. A season to experience, a season to learn and a season to love. Now that season is over, and a new season is dawning…for him and for me..

Breaking up is never easy but we finally said our goodbyes and moved on with our lives. I hope he learnt from what we have shared before and moved on to find a better love just like I did smile


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